Some controversial, challenging questions to which only you have the answer

What does having a role model say about us?

Do we really need role models, are they inspiring and motivating or an excuse for lack of confidence to create personal ambitions? “I want to be like him/her”, why can’t you just be a better you?

Some definitions of a role model

A person who serves as an example of positive values, attitudes, and behaviours. Someone who distinguishes themselves in such a way that others admire and want to emulate them.

Interestingly a ‘role model’ may be a complete stranger or by contrast someone with whom you interact frequently.

Do you need a ‘role model’ to become someone who:

Demonstrates confidence and leadership.  Is always assured, calm and confident in themselves continuing to strive for bigger and better objectives.

Communicates and interacts with everyone. Good communication means listening as well as talking. Great role models have a consistent, motivating, inspiring message that everyone understands.

Shows respect and concern for others. Do not take people for granted and show gratitude. Acknowledge positive qualities and support weaknesses in others.

Is well informed and well rounded.  Constantly learning, self-challenging and willingly acquiring knowledge from others.

Admits mistakes.  Having made a mistake, talk about it, share the experience, discuss solutions and accept accountability.

Exhibits positive energy and altruism. Establish a work/life balance and become involved with the wider community.

Word of caution, striving to be someone else may be stressful and generate feelings of disappointment, especially so, if you fail to accomplish expectations. Set ambitious but realistic aspirations.

Idol worship is shallow and uninspiring, it is definitely not looking up to a ‘role model’.